STOP the Mommy Wars!

*This is absolutely a rant. I’m fed up and hesitantly decided to post, enjoy!*

Look, I get that you’re insecure about the fact that your house is consistently messy, you don’t hardly take showers, you’ve completely forgotten about your husband, you don’t sleep, and you get nasty with anyone who looks at you funny when you’re wearing pajamas and matted hair to the store. However, that does not give you a right to bastardize those of us that choose to keep our house somewhat tidy, shower daily (even if it just means two minutes of hair washing), actually getting sleep, or sweet talking family into watching the kids to have just a couple hours alone with hubby. You can be a martyr, you can brag about your chaotic life after kids, you can try and pretend this is normal, shit, you can go raise zebras in your backyard, I don’t care. But stop judging parents that do not do things the way you do.

Let differences be OKAY.

Oh, and don’t even think about telling me or anyone else that my children are not getting enough attention and love because I am selfishly cleaning, showering, tending to my marriage, etc. *eyeroll*

**This is not directed to any specific persons necessarily, simply manifested out of various comments I have seen and heard over the past few years being a parent on social media**